Discovering Lewis Capaldi

42 and counting

This year was definitely one of the best birthdays I’ve had. Saturday started things off with Honey Pig – I love Korean BBQ and the dipping sauce they make is insane. Fun fact I found out last weekend was they sell their dipping sauce! So I got a quart for my birthday LOL!

Then Sunday my actual birthday I got a 90 minute massage and then we went to Noodle King for some yummy Cantonese food. It was a relaxing and laid back weekend.

I would like to emphasize that my husband does exactly what I say I want to do, not what he thinks I want to do. There is no anxiety or stress about whether or not I have the appropriate amount of appreciation and excitement for gifts. I’m finding PTSD is like that, popping up randomly to remind me of emotionally traumatic times from my first relationship/marriage. The more distance I gain as the years pass, the more I understand how toxic my ex-husband is.

The point being is I received the exact sort of birthday celebration I wanted and that’s the best present I could ever get.